Recent lessons on marriage & relationship

From last week's counseling session:

A husband's core values:
1. Initiate
2. Set the financial in order
3. Encourage

A husband's attitude:
1. Understand and develop your wife's talents and callings

A wife's core values:
1. Submit

From Richard-Arni's wedding:

The recipe for a successful marriage:
B - Bless each other
E - Edify one another, encourage
S - Spend time
T - Touch (especially touch her feelings)

Purpose for our marriage (just thought them up last night):

L - Love one another
S - Spiritual: seek the Lord
B - Bear fruits: be a blessing to others